Older members of society are especially vulnerable to loneliness right now
as they are at high risk from Coronavirus and advised to only leave their homes
if it’s essential. However, even when we can’t be physically close to our loved
ones, there are many ways that we can support them, show kindness and appreciation, and stay connected. Here are
10 ways that you can support the physical, emotional and mental wellbeing of
your loved ones during lockdown.
1. Invite them to a family concert
Even when we can’t be physically close to our loved ones, we can still
experience connection - a family concert is a great way to do this. Arrange a
video conference for the whole family and invite everyone to take part with a
song, dance, play, poetry reading or favourite joke. Being together and
celebrating each other’s talents is a wonderful way to bring a sense of
belonging and create special memories to treasure for years to come. Schedule
it in and it will become the highlight of the week.
2. Send a personalised card
Sending a personalised card is a lovely way to stay close to your loved
ones. Touchnote allows you to design
and send cards and postcards straight from your phone, with no need to buy a
stamp or visit a post office. You can personalise your card with a photo,
custom design features and a heartfelt message.
3. Use a digital scrapbook
Storychest is an easy-to-use digital
scrapbook app that enables you to capture and store the precious moments of
your life to privately share with your family and closest friends. A digital
scrapbook is a just like a traditional scrapbook but created online, meaning
there is no mess and no size limit. You can easily share photos, videos and
stories of special occasions, funny moments, and lockdown projects, to support
the mental and emotional wellbeing of your loved ones.
4. Encourage physical activity
Many of us are missing the levels of physical activity that we were used to
before lockdown. Let your loved ones know about opportunities that they can
join in with, such as the over 70s exercise sessions led by 1980s ‘Green
Goddess’ Diana Moran during lockdown. 80-year-old Diana is leading exercise
sessions three times a week so that viewers can join in from home, showing on
BBC Breakfast on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays at 6.55am and 8.55am.
5.Treat them with cake
Whether it’s to celebrate a special occasion such as a birthday or wedding
anniversary, or simply to say, ‘I love you’, treating your older friends and
family to a cake is a great way to show you care. Cake in a box designs delicious cakes
and cupcakes and offers nationwide delivery. They can make egg free cakes,
dairy free cakes and gluten free cakes if required, and will create a cake to
suit your budget, so why not bring a smile to a loved one’s face with a sweet
treat?
6. Help them learn
U3A, or the university of the third age, provides creative, educational, and
social activities for people in their ‘third age’. They have recently launched Trust U3A as a way for people
to join their community online while face-to-face contact is limited. Why not
treat someone dear to a Trust U3A membership for just £7.50, and give them
access to learning resources, interest groups, and events and activities that
they can take part in.
7. Top up their hobby supplies
Do your loved ones have a hobby that they enjoy? Taking part in a hobby
exercises the brain and supports positive mental health, so making sure their
hobby supplies are topped up is a great way to support your friends and family.
Most supplies can be purchased online and delivered directly to their front
door. If you’re not sure what they might need, just ask!
8. Send a letterbox hamper
From cheese to chocolate to healthy snacks, receiving a hamper is a lovely
experience – so often they contain little luxuries that we wouldn’t buy for
ourselves. Treat your loved one to a Yumbles
letterbox hamper that is beautifully presented, full of carefully chosen treats
and fits through their letterbox.
9. Write a letter
This is a simple but powerful way to support your friends and family – a
personal letter shows your care in a unique way and is sure to be treasured and
reread. If you don’t like writing letters yourself, take advantage of RoboQuill’s offer to send 150 free notes to
the ‘loved and elderly’ during lockdown and beyond. RoboQuill’s robots pen
‘handwritten’ notes using real fountain pens and using real ink - they are so
realistic your loved ones won’t believe they’ve been written by a robot!
10. Spoil them with a boutique treat
The Bias Cut is the first
age-inclusive online women’s boutique with lots of gorgeous treats to cheer up
loved ones, including clothing, jewellery, and accessories. Even better, buy an
item marked with a rainbow, heart or star and they will donate 25% of the
proceeds from your sale to Hospice UK. For your older male friends and family,
why not treat them to something from Charles
Tyrwhitt.
Whichever
way you choose to show your care and support for your friends and family that
are over 70, it is sure to be appreciated and will make a real difference
reducing feelings of loneliness and isolation.
If you are feeling lonely and feel like you need to talk to someone
immediately, call the Age UK Advice Line on 0800 055 6112.